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Today's Featured Columnist: Mychal Massie

N-Word as a Term of Endearment?
 
 
By Mychal Massie
 
 
A New Visions Commentary paper published April 2008 by The National Center for Public Policy Research, 501 Capitol Court NE #200, Washington, D.C. 20002, 202/543-4110, Fax 202/543-5975, E-Mail Project21@nationalcenter.org, Web http://www.project21.org. Reprints permitted provided source is credited.
 
 
 
Would a proud father call his daughter the b-word or a "ho"?  Would a loving husband call his wife a sloppy, dirty sl*t to show his affection?
 
Not likely.
 
Why?  Because people who respect themselves and honestly respect others don't show affection and respect with such loathsome and baneful language.  Sadly, there is a growing cacophony of black voices who think calling one another by the n-word, for instance, is acceptable for showing affection, respect and endearment for one another.
 
Harvard law professor Randall Kennedy - the man who literally wrote the book on the word - notes that etymologists say n*gger "was derived from an [old] English word 'neger' that was itself derived from 'Negro,' the Spanish word for black."  But, he adds, "the term 'n*gger' is in most contexts a cultural obscenity."
 
In his 1837 work, The Condition of the Colored People of the United States; and the Prejudice Exercised Toward Them, Hosea Easton similarly said the n-word, "is an opprobrious term, employed to impose contempt upon [blacks] as an inferior race... The term itself would be perfectly harmless were it used only to distinguish one class from another; but it is not used with that intent... it flows from the fountain of purpose to injure."
 
No matter how or when one tries to define the word, the n-word is always going to be a vile pejorative with connotations intended to demean and insult.  Any attempt to make it something else is just plain wrong.  This applies to both "n*gger" and the allegedly non-offensive "n*gga." It also applies to the notion that it's alright for black - and blacks only - to use the word.  It's nonsensical and perverse reasoning.
 
Someone who teaches in a primarily black school district recently told me he had "heard many black students call each other the n-word nearly every period of every day."  His attempts to "educate" students about the word was met with disregard.  He was given "various reasons as to why it was acceptable for blacks to call each other the word," but it was clear that - when a student turned the word on him - it was then not intended as a term of affection.
 
The question begging and answer is how some in our community came to find it acceptable to so demean themselves?  It's not like there is a history of its use.  Martin Luther King never, to my knowledge, greeted someone with "My n*gger, come give me a hug."  Can you imagine Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice hanging up from a call with the President and telling her staff, "That was just my n*gger on the phone"?  Does Al Sharpton's secretary tell him, "Your n*ggers out in the lobby to see you"?  Obviously, the answer is no.
 
I would argue the use and acceptance of the n-word as a measure of endearment is accepted only by those entombed alive at the bottom rungs of our communities.  It's easy to blame hip-hop culture for glamorizing the word, but I believe it is the overall destabilization of the black family that has led to this unsettling devolvement.
 
So many of us have dealt with issues such as poverty, poor education and disfranchisement. Until recently, we have still maintained our decency and self-respect.  Today, however, we are supposed to believe that the basest verbal commonality is acceptable because it is now "our culture."
 
This is a lie from the pit of hell.  Behavior that does not inspire and encourage things that are productive and positive serves only to hold people down.  As evidenced by the pandemic levels of black abortion, out of wedlock births, a debilitating dependence on government and fractured and dysfunctional households, that is exactly what is happening.
 
Married, two-parent households, an emphasis on education and an emulation of that which is proven to be positive have no socio-economic strata.  It is also about self-worth and self-respect.  Only blacks seem to be encouraged to accept base commonalities as a lifestyle.  The question that must be answered is why.
 
 
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Mychal Massie is the chairman of the Project 21 black leadership network.  Comments may be sent to Project21@nationalcenter.org.
 
 
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Everybody Pays for Single Parenthood – In More Ways Than One

 

As a product of a single-parent home brought up in the welfare state, I know firsthand the negative baggage that growing up fatherless and in poverty can breed. Research only confirms this. Numerous studies have shown that children born and raised in fatherless, single-parent homes are much more likely to live in poverty, experience depression, have trouble in school, and get in trouble with the law than children in married, two-parent households. 

Despite this, however, if one were to read the tea leaves nowadays, one would believe that strong marriages and families are the exception, not the norm. Given the high rate of divorce in American society and the fact that almost 40% of American children (and 70% of African-American children) are born out of wedlock, one can see that American society is on a slippery downward slope.

A new study now shows the financial costs of divorce and single parenthood to taxpayers. According to research conducted by Georgia College & State University economist Ben Scafidi, divorce and single parenthood cost taxpayers $112 billion a year in Federal, state and local spending on welfare, health care and education programs, criminal justice expenditures, and lost tax revenues. Professor Scafidi’s work was commissioned by the Institute for American Values, the Institute for Marriage and Public Policy, Families Northwest of Redmond, Washington, and the Georgia Family Council. These organizations want to use the results of the study, which offers no formal recommendations, to prompt lawmakers to invest more money into programs to bolster and strengthen marriage. Such programs are already in place in Oklahoma and Texas.

Some scholars have expressed their suspicions of the effectiveness of government spending on marriage programs. 

Syracuse University economics professor Tim Smeeding advocates increased investment in job creation. "I have nothing against marriage -- relationship-building is great. But alone it's not going to do the job. A full-employment economy would probably be the best thing -- decent, stable jobs," he says. “A high number of African-American men have been in prison -- that limits their future earning potential and makes them bad marriage partners, regardless of what kind of person they are. A marriage program doesn't address that problem at all."

"Providing a global number doesn't give us anything to go on," says University of Michigan sociologist Pamela Smock, who is skeptical of the study’s $112 billion estimate. "We're now nearing 40 percent of kids in America born out of wedlock. I can't fathom that those marriage programs, even with increased investment, are going to reduce that."

Professor Smock believes that a greater investment in education is needed to improve economic prospects for children from fragmented, disadvantaged families. 

David Blankenhorn, president of the Institute for American Values, one of the groups that sponsored the study, acknowledges that the study makes multiple references to marriage-strengthening programs while not proposing other strategies for reducing the cost of family fragmentation.

"Maybe we should have been more ecumenical," he said. "Let everybody have their say. Let's try things out. ... Nobody knows exactly the strategies which are going to work."

Granted, the jury is still out on government-funded pro-marriage, job-creation and education programs as a means to counter the corrosive effects of divorce and single parenthood. That being said, there is no question that divorce and single parenthood are not only bad for children families and communities; they are costing American taxpayers a bundle.

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Today's Featured Columnist: Doug Giles

Don't Send Your Kids to Publik Skule (If You Love Them) 
By Doug Giles 

Did you catch the video this week of a student kicking the stuffing out of an art teacher in Baltimore, Maryland while the rest of the class cheered the pounding on? Y'know, if that teacher was moi, and some F-bomb dropping Darwinian throwback came over my desk to accost me, I'd grab my handy dandy scissors and plant 'em in the feral teen's skullcap, Jason Voorhees style. 

From there I would proceed to snag the American flag from the corner of the room (if there was one) in order to stave off the rest of the flesh eating zombies 'til Jason Statham came in with dual SKSes, spitting 154 grain FMJs, to assist with my safe exit. 

As a teacher, I'd have painted on the front of my desk: DON'T TREAD ON ME-and I'd have the moxie to back it up.

Bumming a line from a movie with the late great Charlton Heston, it looks like the public schools (especially in the inner cities) are being run by "damned dirty apes." The violent and obnoxious students are becoming emboldened in their bellicose behavior within the ridiculously overcrowded Public Stool System, and I believe we haven't seen the half of this catastrophic snake. Teachers, you'd better have a serious plan in place-other than pushing a panic button-should you be next.

I'm not a prophet or a betting man, but (as stated) I'm a guessing it's going to get worse. I'm talkin' way bad (pardon my English; I went to Publik Skule). Mark my words. And I don't care how much Obama talks about hope, or how many inspirational songs American Idol contestants cover, the dysfunctional die has been officially cast for increased chaos in the inner city classroom. Thank you, liberals.

We've got a stack of untamed teens who can't do arithmetic doing the math and figuring out that they can bank street credit for their constant disruptions and violent attacks upon students and teachers with the penalty for their crimes being (maybe) a milquetoast slap on their tattooed wrist. Maybe. And the perks for their misbehaving? Well, they radically trump the mild and tame thump the delinquent gets on their never-utilized head. 
Can you say, "Hello, pandemonium?" I knew you could.

Who the heck would want to be a teacher within such an out-of-control environment? I know if I were an undergrad with dreams of teaching "the next generation" within the Public Fool System, I think I'd switch majors after YouTubing the video of that teacher getting tenderized this week while the class was hooting and hollering. 

Yep, I'd be looking for something less threatening like being a mole inside of an al-Qaeda death squad, or perhaps working as ranting Rosie's personal assistant, or perhaps a vocation in neutering un-anesthetized, unusually angry wolverines. 

It's been four years since we pulled our teenage daughters out of the public school system and started to home school them, and I could kick myself for having waited so long. I owe you, girls. The educational, emotional, spiritual and physical progress they have made has been amazing. I've been ecstatically stunned at how they've aggressively embraced the new lease on their educational life. 

Since we began this program, my oldest has graduated and is now in a great university and on her way to Boardwalk and Park Place. My other daughter is currently cruising through her online honors level classes as a girl uninterrupted. 

Yep, it's amazing that with their virtual schooling they actually get to study the basics, pursue their educational and athletic interests, and do it from wherever in the world they can get online (unlike public schools). 

No longer do they have to wait for the 186% overcrowded class to decide to cease fighting and stop cussing and humping long enough that the teacher can teach the students how to write their name so that, later on in life, they can sign for their stuff once they leave whatever prison they're in. 
 
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President Bush: Pardon Ramos and Compean!

Black Activist Says Drug Smuggler's Guilty Plea Reason to Revisit Presidential Pardon for Ramos and Compean 
  
 
For Release: April 18, 2008
Contact: David Almasi at (202) 543-4110 x11 or dalmasi@nationalcenter.org
 
 
A Mexican drug smuggler whose testimony under a grant of immunity helped American prosecutors convict and jail two U.S. Border Patrol agents has now pleaded guilty to charges that he conspired to smuggle marijuana into the United States twice after he was granted immunity.
 
In light of this new development, Project 21 Chairman Mychal Massie is renewing his demand that President George W. Bush pardon or commute the sentences of incarcerated Border Patrol agents Ignacio Ramos and Jose Alonso Compean.  Ramos and Compean are serving jail sentences of 11 and 12 years, respectively for actions taken in apprehending Osvaldo Aldrete-Davila on February 17, 2005.
 
"Once again, I am challenging President Bush to do what is right," said Massie. "It is time to prove that he places the welfare of American communities and those men and women who risk their lives to protect them over the welfare of lying illicit drug smugglers. Pardon Ramos and Compean now, Mr. President!"
 
On April 17, Aldrete-Davila pleaded guilty to possession of a controlled substance, conspiracy to import a controlled substance and conspiracy to distribute.  He could face a jail term of between five and 40 years and $2 million in fines.  The marijuana Aldrete-Davila admitted to smuggling was brought into the United States in September and October of 2005 and distribution took place between June and November of 2005 - after he has testified against Ramos and Compean under a grant of immunity from a team of federal prosecutors lead by U.S. Attorney Johnny Sutton.  President Bush says he considers U.S. Attorney Sutton a "dear friend."
 
Aldrete-Davila is scheduled to be sentenced in July.  The Washington Times quoted an unnamed source reportedly close to the case who said Aldrete-Davila may actually only receive a sentence of six to 10 years in exchange for his plea.
 
Compean and Ramos were prosecuted for an incident in February of 2005 on the U.S.-Mexico border near El Paso, Texas in which they chased Aldrete-Davila on foot after he abandoned a van containing 743 pounds of marijuana worth an estimated $1 million. During the chase, Ramos shot at Aldrete-Davila after Ramos thought he saw Aldrete-Davila draw a gun. Aldrete-Davila escaped across the U.S.-Mexico border, and Ramos assumed Aldrete-Davila was unhurt.  In fact, Aldrete-Davila had been shot in the buttock.  U.S. Attorney Sutton later charged that Ramos and Compean violated Border Patrol policy by pursuing Aldrete-Davila without supervisor approval, moving spent shell casings and improperly reporting the fired shots.
 
T.J. Bonner, president of the National Border Patrol Council, the agency's labor union, testified before the U.S. Senate that a medical examination of Aldrete-Davila supports the agents' description of events and complied with Border Patrol and Justice Department policies.  The convictions of Ramos and Compean are currently on appeal with the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 5th Circuit.  At the time of the appeal, the judges reviewing the case were aware of the charges against Aldrete-Davila to which he has now pleaded guilty.
 
Project 21's Massie added: "It cannot be overstated that President Bush's stolid indifference thus far toward the suffering of these brave protectors of our borders and their families, while simultaneously seeking special dispensation for illegal immigrants, is unconscionable.  Now it appears that the burden to be borne by agents Ramos and Compean for unknowingly wounding a now admitted drug criminal as he fled from justice across the border is going to be greater than that to be borne by the criminal himself. When the Bush Administration is seeking to protect polar bears from unproven global warming scare-mongering, to not pardon or at least commute the sentences of Ignacio Ramos and Jose Alonso Compean in light of these new-found truths will severely tarnish the Bush legacy."
 
Massie wrote about the Ramos and Compean case in a commentary published in the Washington Times, available at http://tiny.cc/MassieRamosCompean.
 
Project 21, a nonprofit and nonpartisan organization, has been a leading voice of the African-American community since 1992.  For more information, contact David Almasi at (202) 543-4110 x11 or Project21@nationalcenter.org, or visit Project 21's website at http://www.project21.org/P21Index.html.
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Iran's Elliott Spitzer

I guess the head honcho against vice just couldn't resist getting a little piece of it himself.
 
 
Tuesday , April 15, 2008
 

TEHRAN, Iran — 

Tehran's police chief, who was in charge of fighting vice, has been taken to jail and his case is currently under investigation, a spokesman for Iran's judiciary said Tuesday.

 

But the spokesman, Ali Reza Jamshidi, refused to elaborate further about the case which has caught wide public attention in Iran, saying it is now in the "legal stage."

Jamshidi said he was not authorized to provide more information.

Local media have reported that the police chief, Gen. Reza Zarei, was taken to jail after he was caught last month with six nude women by a police raid on an underground local brothel. He was also forced to resign. Local Web sites have also extensively reported the case in recent weeks.

Officials, speaking on condition of anonymity because they were not authorized to talk to the media, have also confirmed the reported arrest circumstances.

Prostitution is illegal in Iran and even talking about sex is frowned upon by hard-line clerics ruling Iran. The order to raid the alleged brothel was reportedly given directly by Iran's Judiciary Chief Ayatollah Mahmoud Hashemi Shahroudi.

Zarei was in charge of a program to clean cities from corruption and in recent months had reported arrests of young men and women for illicit relationship or not respecting the Islamic dress code.

State media in recent weeks reported Zarei's replacement but made no mention of his arrest or the reasons that led to his detention since such issues are considered a taboo in Iran.

Iran's strict Islamic rules allow little socializing between the sexes, and young Iranians have been jailed and flogged for dancing together at birthday parties.

For years, the hard-line clergy that has ruled Iran since the 1979 Islamic revolution painted a rosy picture of the Iranian society, never admitting to vices such as prostitution, which under Iranian law could be punishable by death.

But in the past decade, authorities have acknowledged that prostitution was a fact and is even spreading in Iran. Prostitutes are becoming more and more visible on the streets, mainly due to economic hardships.

The rise in prostitution has led to suggestions that brothels be legalized and monitored. Some Iranians say brothels could be run according to Islamic rules, presumably under a Shiite Muslim tradition in which men and women are allowed to have "temporary marriages" — sometimes less than 24 hours.

Most clerics, though, scoff at the idea that sex outside marriage can ever be condoned by Islam. After the 1979 revolution, clerics destroyed brothels as un-Islamic and corrupting.

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Heather Mills and Dr. Phil Both Need An A**-Whoopin'

Dr. Phil's staff bails out one of the hooligans charged with beating up the Florida teen, and Heather "The Gold-diggin' Nutjob" Mills just won't shut up.  And what does she care how many "girlfriends" her ex-husband Paul McCartney has.  They're divorced, so it's none of her darned business!
 
'nough said.
 
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Shut Up & Sing, Alicia Keys

Here's yet another example of a rich and famous entertainer who, when waxing "political," embarrasses herself by opening her mouth and showing that she doesn't know what the heck she's talking about.  I think she's "fallin'" on her head.
 
 
 
 
There's another side to Alicia Keys: conspiracy theorist.

 

The Grammy-winning singer-songwriter tells Blender magazine: "'Gangsta rap' was a ploy to convince black people to kill each other. 'Gangsta rap' didn't exist."

Keys, 27, said she's read several Black Panther autobiographies and wears a gold AK-47 pendant around her neck "to symbolize strength, power and killing 'em dead," according to an interview in the magazine's May issue, on newsstands Tuesday.

Another of her theories: The bicoastal feud between slain rappers Tupac Shakur and Notorious B.I.G. was fueled "by the government and the media, to stop another great black leader from existing."

Keys' AK-47 jewelry came as a surprise to her mother, who is quoted as telling Blender: "She wears what? That doesn't sound like Alicia." Keys' publicist, Theola Borden, said Keys was on vacation and unavailable for comment.

Though she's known for her romantic tunes, she told Blender that she wants to write more political songs. If black leaders such as the late Black Panther Huey Newton "had the outlets our musicians have today, it'd be global. I have to figure out a way to do it myself," she said.

The multiplatinum songstress behind the hits "Fallin"' and "No One" most recently had success with her latest CD, "As I Am," which sold millions.

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Debra Lafave to Be Released From House Arrest Early

I do not agree with this, but I'm not surprised...
 
 
 
 

TAMPA, Fla. — 

Teacher-turned-sex-offender Debra Lafave will get to spend her final three months of house arrest on probation instead.

 

A judge ordered Tuesday that the 27-year-old former middle school teacher be released from house arrest on July 11. She'll serve straight probation instead, which is less restrictive and doesn't require her to wear a monitoring bracelet.

Click here for photos of Lafave

She was sentenced in November 2005 to three years' house arrest and seven years of probation for having sex with a 14-year-old student.

In January, it was determined that Lafave violated her probation by having contact with an underage female co-worker at a restaurant where she worked, but it wasn't sufficient enough to put her back into jail.

Prosecutor Mike Sinacore objects to Tuesday's decision. He says the victim's family objects, too.

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Kids Today...

... need to be taken to the woodshed!  The following two stories really got my blood boiling today.  Maybe I'm just too "old school," but if I had acted this way as a youngster - or heck, even thought about it! - my mother (God rest her soul) would have given me the a**-whoopin' (notice I didnt' say "whipping") of my life!   Furthermore, she would have dared anybody (cop, teacher, guidance couselor, or child psychology "expert") to try and stop her.
 
These little bastards had better be glad I'm not their father...
 
 
 
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An Ex-Stripper's Past Has Come Back to Haunt Her

You can't run from your past forever.  Sooner or later, everyone has to answer for their crimes...
 
 
Thursday, April 3, 2008

 
 
ANCHORAGE, Alaska —
 
A former stripper-turned-soccer-mom convicted of plotting to kill her former fiance 12 years ago was sentenced Wednesday to 99 years in prison.

 

Mechele Linehan, 35, who until her arrest had been living a quiet life as the wife of an Olympia, Wash., doctor, was convicted in October of first-degree murder in the 1996 shooting death of Kent Leppink.

Prosecutor Pat Gullufsen said Linehan plotted with another man who hoped to marry her, John Carlin III, to lure Leppink to a rural trail, where Carlin shot him with a .44-caliber handgun.

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The motive was a $1 million insurance policy that Linehan mistakenly believed named her as the beneficiary, prosecutors said.

Carlin was sentenced in January to 99 years in prison for firing the shots that killed Leppink.

Anchorage Superior Court Judge Philip Volland called the crime the worst in its category: premeditated, cold and cruel.

"It was a calculated homicide accomplished through deceit, deception and manipulation," Volland said. "It was done for the most venal of reasons and it was dismissed by the two participants in the most casual of ways. It was a man killed by his friend and his fiance."

Volland rejected the contention that Linehan was not a significant participant in Leppink's murder. The evidence showed her obtaining the life insurance policy on Leppink as she was deceiving him about her intentions to marry him, he said. She also used deceit to lure him to the murder scene.

"Just those facts are ones that support complicity in the event," Volland said.

Dozens of people who knew Linehan in the decade after Leppink's murder wrote letters supporting her, mentioning her generosity and volunteer service. But Volland said he could not offer a sentence different from the one he gave to Carlin.

"In my mind I can find no principal distinction between the puppet who pulls the trigger and the puppeteer who pulls the strings," Volland said. "In my judgment, Ms. Linehan was the puppeteer who pulled the strings."

Linehan showed no emotion as the sentence was pronounced. In a short statement, she said she was not the monster prosecutors and the press made her out to be.

"I beg you from the bottom of my heart to allow me the chance to go back to my family as soon as I possibly can," she told Volland.

She will be eligible for parole after serving 33 years.

Prosecutors said Linehan was inspired by a 1994 movie, "The Last Seduction," in which a woman coaxes her lover into killing her husband for money.

Leppink's body was found by utility workers on the ground near a lonely trail in Hope, more than an hour's drive from Anchorage. He had been shot three times with a .44 Magnum. Prosecutors say Linehan and Carlin had lured him to the desolate mining community by using a fictitious note that Leppink found, saying Linehan was holed up in a cabin. The cabin didn't exist.

Carlin and Linehan have denied they were responsible for Leppink's death. Neither testified.

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Morocco: A taste of the Arabic world

Here is an article on my wife's beloved home country...
 
 
Morocco is probably best-known to American travelers for cities like Fez, Casablanca and Marrakech. But this country in the northwest corner of Africa is actually a place of dramatic variety. On a two-week or even one-week visit, it's feasible to fit in a trip to a major city or two, in addition to exploring rural areas.

You might explore undulating desert dunes, the magnificent Atlas Mountains, or a tranquil beach like those found near Agadir. Or visit the Volubilis Roman ruins near Meknes, the dinosaur footprints near Azilal, or eerily quiet Berber villages around Imlil, at the base of Mount Toubkal.

The ancient city of Fez is known for its architecture, alluring medina (the old part of the city) and Karaouine Mosque and University, dating from 859. In Marrakech, by day you can explore the Saadian tombs and the luscious Marjorelle Garden, and by night the famous Djemaa El Fna square, with its food stalls, entertainers and peddlers.

In Casablanca, the modern, giant Hassan II mosque looks like it's melting into the sea at sunset. And for fans of the famous 1942 Humphrey Bogart movie, head to Rick's Cafe, opened by American Kathy Kriger in 2004, a marvelous evocation of the film.

But Americans living in Morocco advise that there's no such thing as a "must-see" list. "There are many places beyond Marrakech that people should consider putting on their agenda," said Vanessa Noel Brown, from Washington D.C, who has been studying in Rabat, the capital city, on a postgraduate scholarship since September 2007.

The U.S Department of State warns that the "potential for terrorist violence" in Morocco is high. But the number of American visitors to Morocco is slowly increasing, according to statistics from the tourist board and the U.S. Embassy here. In 2007, 131,000 Americans visited, 13 percent more than in 2006, when 115,000 Americans arrived.

"Americans like Morocco - they get a taste of the Arabic world, without having to go to the Middle East," said Yassine Naciri, who works at a mid-range hotel in the old part of Marrakech, the tourism hub of the country.

His hotel, Marhbabikoum, like many, is the of the traditional "riad" style: quaintly decorated rooms built around a tiled courtyard, gently lit by candlelight in the evening.

The very best riads are complete with an in-house "hammam," an opulent version of traditional Moroccan communal bathhouses.

It is also possible to stay in a restored kasbah. There are hundreds of them around the country; they once served as fortresses for the most important families. Some stand empty now, while others have been turned into luxury hotels. But budget travelers can also find cheap hostels and guesthouses all over the country, for as little as $10 a night.

Foreigners can expect to attract attention, especially in the more touristy areas, where touts - people who offer unsolicited services for tips - are desperate for business.

Those worried about language difficulties should be reassured that English is more and more widely spoken, according to Hamid Khairi, founder of the Morocco section of CouchSurfers, the popular U.S-based accommodation swap web site, which is an option for those traveling on a shoestring. "But basic French is useful," he said.

The main language, the Moroccan Arabic dialect known as "derija," is quite different from modern standard Arabic, even posing problems for native Arabic speakers.

To confuse things further, many Moroccans also speak one of the Berber languages, Tachelhit, Central Atlas Tamazight or Tarifit.

Morocco's culinary splendor needs little translation however; the superb fusion of French and Middle-Eastern fare speaks for itself.

The day starts with a spectacular array of patisserie (as little as 25 cents) at the street stalls), accompanied by "qehwa bil halib" (coffee with milk) and the startlingly good "aseir limun" (orange juice).

Lunch is couscous, or tagine - which is the name of both a rich stew and the dome-shaped terra-cotta pot in which it is cooked.

To fill the gap between meals, "le gouter" of coffee or tea and cake might be taken at 7 p.m.

Moroccan dinner, normally eaten around 10 p.m., might be "harira" (soup with tomato and lentils), or perhaps an omelette and bread.

The renowned sugary mint tea is drunk throughout the day, and at greater frequency the farther south you go.

With the exception of hot drinks where the water has been boiled, drinking bottled water is advisable.

Islam is central to Moroccan life and on the main religious day of Friday, shops and businesses frequently shut for a good proportion of the afternoon, also allowing time for families to eat couscous together.

While it is not necessary to cover hair, or put on the "djellaba" - the long traditional gown - women may want to dress modestly in respect to local customs.

Adriana Valencia, a postgraduate scholar from the University of Berkeley, who lived in Rabat in 2006 and often comes back, urges visitors to explore a little. "Just ride a bicycle from Rabat to Essaouira, and stop in basically every small town and city in between," she said.

If a bike sounds a bit strenuous for a vacation, hiring a car and driver is always an option.

For travelers saving their dirhams (the local currency, currently about seven to the dollar), sharing a "grand-taxi" which seats two in the front, and four in the back, is the most convenient way to get between towns and villages.

The smaller "petit-taxis," a different color in each town, are limited to three people but Moroccan law does not allow them to leave their designated city.

Buses are to be found in the town "gare routiere," and the mainly efficient trains run between major cities. Those on a bigger budget can take a four-wheel drive vehicle, known locally as a "quatre-quatre," on a tailor-made tour.

Choosing the best season to visit really depends on where travel is planned. The High Atlas Mountains are best walked in spring and autumn. Farther south, nearer the desert, summers can get unbearably hot.

It's a bit chilly year-round on the Atlantic Ocean, but beaches are at their warmest in July and August.

In addition to Fez, Casablanca, Rabat and Marrakech, it is worth considering visits to Essaouira, for a glimpse of a coastal town with a rich architectural history, and Agadir, where you can start a trip along the coast, eat sumptuous seafood, and perhaps head out to the Anti-Atlas Mountains.

A few other places worth seeing in the countryside include:

-Chefchaouen, a pretty, quaint town, where the houses are painted blue, and which you can use as a departure point for exploring the rural north.

-Zagora, a small town next to the desert that can serve as a starting point to visit the villages of Tamegroute and Amezrou, and Mounts Zagora and Azlag.

-Merzouga, a small village reached via the town of Rissani, which provides accommodation within walking distance of Erg Chebbi, Morocco's largest sand dune.

-Ouarzazate, where you'll want to visit the kasbah, then head to the impressive Todra and Dades gorges.

And if you get homesick, you can even find a slice of stateside life in Morocco. Just hunt out the restaurant offering "Pizza à l'Americaine" near the Hassan Tower in Rabat.

"I was walking past one day and just caught this whiff of New York pizza, it was unmistakable," said Valencia.

The pizzeria's owner, Moroccan Max Labdi, was a New York cab driver for four years before coming home to set up the business.

"The American pizza is the best in the world. It just needed to come to Morocco," he said.

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If You Go...

MOROCCO TOURISM: http://www.visitmorocco.com or 212-221-1583.

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Federal Judge Says Enough with the Stupid Names

I couldn't agree more...
 
Federal Judge says enough with the stupid names
 

After Judge Cabrera's historic ruling, little Clitoria Jackson will likely undergo a name change.

(DETROIT) In a decision that's expected to send shockwaves through the African-American community—and yet, give much relief to teachers everywhere—a federal judge ruled today that black women no longer have independent naming rights for their children. Too many black children—and many adults—bear names that border on not even being words, he said.
"I am simply tired of these ridiculous names black women are giving their children," said U.S. Federal Judge Ryan Cabrera before rendering his decision. "Someone had to put a stop to it."
The rule applies to all black women, but Cabrera singled out impoverished mothers.
"They are the worst perpetrators, " he said. "They put in apostrophes where none are needed. They think a 'Q' is a must. There was a time when Shaniqua and Tawanda were names you dreaded. Now, if you're a black girl, you hope you get a name as sensible as one of those."
Few stepped forward to defend black women—and black women themselves seemed relieved.
"It's so hard to keep coming up with something unique," said Uneeqqi Jenkins, 22, an African-American mother of seven who survives on public assistance. Her children are named Daryl, Q'Antity, Uhlleejsha, Cray-Ig, Fellisittee, Tay'Sh'awn and Day'Shawndra.
Beginning in one week, at least three white people must agree with the name before a black mother can name her child.
"Hopefully we can see a lot more black children with sensible names like Jake and Connor," Cabrera said.
His ruling stemmed from a lawsuit brought by a 13-year-old girl whose mother created her name using Incan hieroglyphics.
"She said it would make me stand out," said the girl, whose name can't be reproduced by The Peoples News' technology. "But it's really just stupid."
The National Association of Elementary School Teachers celebrated Cabrera's decision.
"Oh my God, the first day of school you'd be standing there sweating, looking at the list of names wondering 'How do I pronounce Q'J'Q'Sha.'? " said Joyce Harmon, NAEST spokeswoman. "Is this even English?"
The practice of giving black children outlandish names began in the 1960s, when blacks were getting in touch with their African roots, said historian Corlione Vest. But even he admits it got out of hand.
"I have a niece who's six. I'm embarrassed to say I can't even pronounce her name," said Vest, a professor at Princeton University. "Whenever I want to talk to her, I just wait until she looks at me and then I wave her over."
Cabrera's ruling exempted black men because so few of them are actually involved in their children's lives.
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Debbie Schlussel on Men Receiving Alimony

 

I have mixed feelings about a front-page article in today's Wall Street Journal, "Men Receiving Alimony Want a Little Respect."

I've always believed that feminists don't really want true "equality." That, when women must suddenly take on traditionally male responsibilities--actually, penalties--that go along with that equality, like paying alimony, they suddenly don't believe in "equality." They balk. They want male benefits, but not the panoply of duties and disadvantages that come with them. When women, like former "Good Morning America" host Joan Lunden, complain about paying alimony to their less wealthy husbands, I say, "Welcome to equality, babe."

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On the other hand, the increase in the number of women paying alimony to their stay-at-home or less wealthy husbands is a stark symptom of sickness in America. The disease is the blurring of the gender roles. More and more men are rapidly becoming women. And more and more women are rapidly becoming men. No, I'm not referring to sex changes, but to gender roles. It's not a good thing that there are more and more men who are Mr. Moms and more and more women who are the sole or primary breadwinner in the relationship.

When I hosted a daily radio show in Detroit, I once asked my mostly male listeners if and why they would ever marry a woman who had more money or made more money than they did. At the time, Ben Affleck was engaged to Jennifer Lopez, one of the few women in the world with far more assets than himself. He could have chosen to marry anyone, but chose one of the few women who would be the man in his relationship (which later went kaput, and I believe, partially, for that reason).

Few callers to my show said they'd want to earn less than the woman they were with, but a few said they wouldn't mind being a kept man. However, being a kept man comes with strings. You are not "the man" in the relationship. While many couples may put out the BS line that they are 50/50, equal partners in their relationship, it's simply not the case. There is no such thing. In every single relationship, there is a stronger and a weaker party to it. One party is always more powerful than the other.

If you are the major breadwinner, you are "the man." You have the power. The other person is reduced to the female role. That's simply the way it is, despite what Gloria Steinem might say or how she wants it to be. Men are hard-wired as hunter gatherers. When they are reduced to the homemaker and Mr. Mom role, it's degrading and emasculating, despite what they might claim. They simply don't have the respect of their female spouse that they might think they have. It's emotional wimpitude.

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A Very Thought-Provoking Article by the Rev. Jesse Lee Peterson

The soul of the black community is dead.
By Rev. Jesse Lee Peterson
 
 
 

The LORD shall send upon thee cursing, vexation, and rebuke, in all that thou settest thine hand unto for to do, until thou be destroyed, and until thou perish quickly; because of the wickedness of thy doings, whereby thou hast forsaken me.

--Deuteronomy 28:15, 18-20

The soul of the black community is dead.
 

Ashes to ashes, dust to dust; a fire still burns in those very few who have clung to the values of old, but our days as a people of character, unshakeable spirit, and respectability are, for all intents and purposes, dead. Though I had long been pained at what I perceived to be the gradual decline of the black community, it donned on me in recent months that the dismal and prolonged downturn of my people had greatly accelerated. Tonight I again take survey of my brethren; spiritually, we are no more.

This revelation knocked the wind out of me. It had been largely to the purpose of helping blacks wake up and see the error of their ways that I committed myself to some 13 years ago. I thought then that, though blacks had already fallen so far, there was a great chance to overcome. But with this new realization I now sat motionless, wondering if the battle had been lost, if we had eternally surrendered. Or if there was hope.

After an internally tumultuous and spiritually troublesome wait, an answer came on this question. It went as follows:

I saw the death of Jesus Christ. I saw the death of the black soul. I saw the miraculous resurrection of Christ. And therein, I saw the glimmer of hope. The only hope of the black community is for a resurrection of miraculous proportions. Blacks of today must atone for the sins of our fathers to command the mercy and love that would precipitate such a resurrection.

A daunting task this is. Whereas Christ died with a holy nature, the black soul has died in the gallows of weakness and immorality. A representative snapshot of the black community today:

Seventy percent of black babies born out of wedlock has lent itself to an epidemic of fatherlessness. The black woman carries no respect for a man of such weakness and harbors perpetual hatred for this man who bedded, and then abandoned, her. The father’s absence made the mother the influential figure to the family. But her anger toward the man who left her is so great that she cannot be a positive influence. The black youth is victimized by his mother’s dominant hatred. With no father as a figure of guidance and respect, the child can’t help but yield to this force of darkness.

So the young black man comes to what he is today—incidentally a perfect representation of the overall downfall of the black community. No direction. No drive. No soul. Generally today, young black men carry with them no sense of responsibility to be productive, no aversion to undisciplined behavior, nor any indication that they can overcome the sin into which they’re born. Rather than work and strive to move up in the world, they opt to abuse drugs, chase women, and act like immature fools.

Usually when one is born into dire circumstances he is accompanied by a sense of desperation to succeed. He innately feels that he must work hard, harder than all those around him just to be able to survive. The young black man of today feels none of this. His focus is on his next joint. The emasculation of the young black man by the dominant black women has destroyed this drive. His innate sense now is to lust after a woman. In doing so, the black man is forever subject to "momma."

Meanwhile, young black girls do as their mothers do and adopt the same vicious, emasculatory techniques. Thus a cycle perpetuates. With few strong examples of God